SUCCESS = Staying Positive: How to?

Whenever I come across successful persons, I often wonder - How do these men and women stay positive and concentrate on their goals, and march ahead inspite of so many contrasting, discouraging situations, so many -ve bullets, so many pull down, etc.? "Are these individuals born POSITIVE!.... or it is their CHOICE!". I believe that everyone is born positive - GOD never differentiate while crafting everylife and he puts in equal energy, attention, care in shaping each career - some people choose to accept GODs gift and leverage on it - other's simply refuse!

Thus, staying POSITIVE is a matter of choice. If you have made this choice - realize that one of the best way to be POSITIVE is to bring in SELF CHANGE. We need to bring in "self changes" on three fronts, viz. thinking, attitude, and behavior.

Attitude change can only happen from INSIDE OUT. Accept the responsibility to bring in attitudinal changes - Be responsible for "Who I am?", "What I have?", and "What I do?". This responsible state of mind would help us to take control of our life. This would provide us sense of ownership to life, mandate mission for life, uplift basic values and value system of life, and as well result in improving discipline.

Thinking can be changed by observing every situation LOGICALLY. Best way to begin this process is to start observing our own thinking. Is it -ve or +ve? If it is -ve, then you need to change it. For this we need to change our self talk - what you talk to yourself. We need to let our mind and heart know that you are special child of GOD, today is the most wonderful day, etc...

Behavior can be brought in through true assessment, determination, and discipline. Change from being "Reactive" to situations to "RESPONSIBLE" to situations. These would help you to pass through 4 stages of behavior changes "Unconscious Incomepetence" --> "Conscience Incompetence" --> "Conscience Competence" ---> "Unconscious Competenece". This would help you to reincarnate "The NEW YOU"!.

We ourselves can influence our environment by adding positive behavior! Leave bad habits and adopt good ones. Make more positive contributions. Remember to watch your definitions - as they become thoughts. Rememebr to watch your thoughts - as they become words. Remember to watch your words - as they become action. Remember to watch your actions - as they become your destiny. Choice is ours - with positive attitude - we can have positive destiny that can not only change our life for better but candle many lives in positive manner. Be SUCCESSFUL by being POSITIVE. Thus -

SUCCESS = STAYING POSITIVE!